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Development and variety
of attachments
This topic
looks at the formation of childhood attachments, what happens if these
attachments are not formed, or are broken and finally on the affects that
day care provision has on cognitive and emotional development. Most text
books seem as confused as I am about the first section which seems to flit
around all over the place. In an attempt to give it some structure I’ll
break it down into the following sections:
1.
What
are attachments?
2.
Why do
we form attachments?
3.
When do
we form attachments?
4.
What
kind of attachments do we form?
5.
How
many attachments do we form?
What are
attachments?
Becoming
attached to a person suggests that you have formed a close bond or
friendship with them. Although this topic concentrates on early
attachments we clearly go on forming new ones throughout life, with
friends, work colleagues etc., as well as attachments of lerrrrrve (he
said adopting his 70s porn star accent) but lower sixth are considered by
the Board to be too young for such things!
Schaffer
(1993) defines attachments as:
‘A close
emotional relationship between two persons, characterised by mutual
affection and a desire to maintain proximity.’
In a similar
vein, Maccoby (1980) describes four characteristics of an attachment:
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Seeking
proximity,
the desire to be close to the person to whom you are attached.
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Separation
anxiety,
the distress that results from being separated from that person.
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Pleasure
when reunited,
relief and observable joy when reunited with them.
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General
orientation of behaviour towards the caregiver,
the child’s awareness of where the person is, and the reassurance they
feel by them being close.
These will be
discussed later when we look at the work of Mary Ainsworth.

Why do we form
attachments?
This is best
broken into short term (immediate) benefits and longer term benefits.
Both, to some extent, can be explained in terms of benefits to the
reproductive success of the species or individual (depending whether you
favour Darwin or Dawkins; for the biologists).
Short term
benefits
Most species
emerge into the world unable to fend for themselves so require lots of
assistance in the early stages of life. This is particularly true of the
human infant who isn’t capable of fending for his or herself for many
years.
Forming a
close attachment with a caregiver therefore ensures that the offspring
will be fed, protected from harm, educated in various techniques of
survival and kept warm. It seems likely that the infant’s need to form an
attachment is innate. It is also worth considering that it is also in the
interests of the parent(s) to protect their offspring from harm. Again in
evolutionary terms they, particularly the mother, have invested a lot of
time and energy in producing offspring, it is in their best interests to
see the fruits of their labours reach maturity and reproduce themselves.
It therefore seems likely that adults also have an innate tendency to form
attachments with their offspring.
Long term
benefits
These are not
so immediately apparent. Bowlby (1969) proposed that early attachments
provide a template or schema, or a set of expectations that allow us to
build other attachments later in life. He called this template the ‘internal
working model.’

Evaluation of
the Love
Unfortunately,
in terms of what it tells us, but fortunately, in terms of you answering
questions about it, the Love Quiz is a poor piece of research. Asked to
criticise it, choose from the mouth watering selection of criticisms
below:
Self
selecting sample:
the participants volunteered after reading an advert in the Rocky Mountain
News. This is a poor way of selecting participants since you are not
getting a cross section of the public. Using this sampling technique, for
example, you are going to get people with an ‘axe to grind’ or with
extremes of experience or opinion.
Questionnaire:
People tend not to answer truthfully, particularly on issues of
relationships, instead wanting to make themselves look good.
Retrospective:
As we saw in
memory our recollection of past events is not reliable, so it seems
unlikely that people’s memory of their childhood experiences will be
accurate.
Cause
and effect:
The researchers have shown a relationship between early attachments and
later ones and are assuming that the childhood experience has caused
the adult experience. However, other factors could be involved. Kagan
(1984) suggested the temperament hypothesis. Children with a pleasant
disposition are more likely to form warm relationships with parents and
later in life, assuming they maintain their ‘niceness’, will form more
loving relationships again.
Other evidence
for a link between early attachments and later ones is provided by Quinton
et al (1988) who looked at women who had spent their early life in
institutions and been unable to form attachments themselves. Later in
life they made poor parents, being unable to form close bonds with their
own children.
When do we
form attachments?
There are two
main theories as to when we form attachments:
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Stage theory,
which suggests that attachments develop in stages over a period of time
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Critical
period theory,
which sees attachments as forming in a short period of time, and once
formed being irreversible.
Stage theory
as proposed by Schaffer and Emerson (1964)
This was based
on their Glasgow babies study (outlined below), and concludes that human
infants progress through 3 stages of attachment.
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Stage and
age |
Characteristics |
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Asocial
(0-6
weeks) |
This is
short lived. Attention seeking behaviour such as crying and smiling
is not directed at anyone in particular, suggesting attachments could
be made with anyone. |
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Indiscriminate attachment
(6weeks to
7 months) |
Similar in
that the child seeks attention from anyone and is happy to receive
attention from anyone. However, preferences are shown to familiar
faces that elicit a greater response from the infant. |
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Specific
attachments
(7
to 11 months) |
Child is
primarily attached to the main caregiver. If they are separated the
child becomes distressed and the child is wary of strangers. (See
later notes on the Strange situation). |

Evaluation of
Shaffer and Emerson’s Stage Theory
Most evidence
seems to favour the concept of attachments forming in stages like this,
for example the work of Mary Ainsworth (yes, yet another lady
psychologist).
However, some
research suggests that children in the first few weeks of life are not as
asocial as Schaffer and Emerson suggested. Carpenter (1975) found that
infants only a few days old respond differently to their mother than they
do to others, i.e. they spend longer looking at their mother than they do
at others
Critical
period as proposed by Konrad Lorenz
This idea
comes from the work of ethologists on non-human animals, particularly
birds.
Just as
physical characteristics of various species develop at certain stages of
growth, the ethologists claim that perhaps attachments will only form
during similar critical periods. The most famous examples of this are
birds forming attachments to the first thing they see upon hatching.
Think of the cutie duckling in Tom and Jerry.
Ethologists
refer to the phenomenon as imprinting. It has the following
characteristics:
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It occurs
during a critical period.
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It is
irreversible. Once the bond is formed it cannot be broken, nor can its
effects.
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It has
consequences;
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short term
for survival
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long term
because it becomes a template (internal working model) for later
attachments and behaviour.
Evidence
Konrad Lorenz
(1935) split a clutch of goose eggs and got half to be hatched by their
mother and the rest were placed in an incubator and saw Konrad on
hatching. The second group subsequently followed Konrad everywhere and
became distressed if they were separated from him.
Immelmann
(1972) imprinted newly hatched zebra finches on Bengalese finches. Later
in life the zebra finches ‘preferred’ to mate with Bengalese finches
rather than their own species.



Most
criticisms of the imprinting or critical period theory however, are based
on its application to humans.
Few would
argue for such a rigid period of attachments in humans. However, some,
for example Bowlby, have argued for a ‘watered down’ version, referred to
as a sensitive period. The idea being that there is a time in an
infant’s life when it is most likely to form an attachment, but it can
continue to form them outside this period. Bowlby argued that our need to
form attachments was innate and would occur in the sensitive period
between the ages of 1 and 3 years.
Skin to skin
hypothesis
Klaus and
Kennel (1976) looked at two groups of newly born infants:
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Group one
allowed contact with mother during feeding in the first 3 days
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Group two
allowed extended contact with mother lasting several hours a day
One month
later when they returned to the hospital mothers in group two were found
to cuddle their babies more and make greater eye contact. The effects
were still noticeable a year later.
Chateau and
Wiberg (1977) found that mothers who were allowed to handle their unwashed
babies at birth and breast fed showed more affectionate behaviour towards
the child later and breast fed for an average 2 months longer than
‘traditional contact’ mothers.
Evaluation
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Durkin
(1995) pointed out that most of the mothers were unmarried and from poor
families so results may be difficult to generalise to the general
population
(Note that
this is another one of those ‘catch-all’ evaluation comments that can be
applied in any situation when participants are chosen from a narrow
grouping, e.g. students).
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Lozoff
(1983) found no cross–cultural support, since societies in which close
early contact is encouraged show no greater signs of attachment than
other societies.
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It seems
that ‘skin to skin’ attachments of this kind or imprinting are
confined to non-human species. In humans the effects seen are not
irreversible.
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Even in
non-human animal species it seems that imprinting is more flexible than
Konrad Lorenz thought. Sluckin (1965) believes that the sensitive period
is a time when a young animal is most likely to form an attachment, but
that such responses can be learned at any stage in life.
How many
attachments do we form?
The argument
here is not as straight forward as it first appears. On the face of it
the debate is between many attachments or just the one. However, Bowlby,
who was in the ‘one’ camp, did not actually believe that only one
attachment was formed, rather that there was only one primary
attachment. The ‘many attachments’ approach believes there
are many attachments and that they are all similarly important to the
child. The text also claims that Bowlby did not believe that the main
attachment had to be the mother, saying that his words ‘maternal’ and
‘mothering’ were not intended to mean mother! That is certainly not the
way I understood it!
However, back
to the real issue, one main attachment or many important ones?
Thomas (1998)
has made it clear that children will benefit from a variety of attachment
styles provided by different caregivers, so for example an attachment to a
father figure will provide benefits to the child that a mother alone could
not provide. In Caribbean and European culture, infants seem to form many
equally important attachments to different people.
Bowlby (1969)
claimed that there was a hierarchy of attachments, with a primary
caregiver, usually the mother at the top. The Efe, an African tribe,
share the care of their children so that women in the village breast feed
each another’s children. However, the infants still go on to form their
primary attachment with their biological mother.
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A note of
interest but probably of little use in an exam. In his work on
‘Maternal deprivation’ Bowlby emphasised the role of the mother in
rearing children and claimed that without the mother there would be
long term harm caused to the child. It has been suggested that
Bowlby’s theory was politically motivated. He first put forward his
ideas in 1946, immediately post war. During the war women had worked
in the factories and had taken jobs traditionally done by men. Rumour
has it that the government were concerned about men returning from war
having no jobs to go to and used Bowlby’s theory to justify women
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Extension
(that perennial issue, quantity or quality?)
Does
attachment depend upon the length of time the caregiver spends with the
infant or the quality of care that they offer? You won’t be surprised to
hear that it seems to be quality not quantity that counts! (As I always
tell the ladies!).
Fox (1977)
studied children raised in Kibbutzim (plural of Kibbutz). The
children spent the day with metapelets (nurses) and only a small amount of
time each evening with parents. Despite this they still formed their
primary attachment with their mother. Fox attributed this to the one to
one care (quality) offered by the mother despite the nurses having the
quantity of care option.
Harlow (1959)
in his classic study found that baby monkeys would rather cuddle up to a
cloth model rather than a wire one, even though the wire one fed them.
What kind of
attachments do we form?
Much of what
we’ve seen in Psychology so far looks at ways in which we are similar. It
has tried to find models or theories that explain human behaviour but
without considering ways in which our behaviours differ. An important
area in the subject however is individual differences which, as the
title suggests seeks to explain the differences we find between people.
This
section seeks to explain how:
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Individuals differ in the types of attachment they form
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Different cultures influence the types of attachment we form
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The Strange
Situation
This is
a method devised by Ainsworth and Bell to measure the type of
attachment that a child has formed. It uses many terms and concepts
that you should already be familiar with from earlier work in the
topic, e.g. Shaffer and Emerson.
The
experiment is set up in a small room with one way glass so the
behaviour of the child can be observed. Children were aged between 12
and 18 months. Each phase of the procedure lasts 3 minutes and a
session progresses as follows:
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Parent (or caregiver) enters room with child, child explores for 3
minutes
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A
Stranger enters and joins the parent and infant, talks to mother
·
Parent leaves the infant with the stranger
·
Parent returns and the stranger leaves. Parent settles the infant.
·
Parent leaves again
·
Stranger returns
·
Parent returns and stranger leaves.
In all
the stranger enters on average eight times, more if the child is okay,
less if it is showing signs of distress.
Ainsworth
was particularly interested in observing:
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Separation anxiety
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Stranger anxiety
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Reaction when reunited with parent
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Findings
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Secure
Attachment |
Resistant
Attachment |
Avoidant
Attachment |
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Separation
anxiety |
Distressed
when mother leaves
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Infant
shows signs of intense distress |
Infant
shows no sign of distress when mother leaves |
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Stranger
anxiety
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Stranger
is able to offer some comfort |
Infant
avoids the stranger |
Infant is
okay with the stranger and plays normally when stranger is present |
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Reunion
behaviour
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Runs to
mother and greets her enthusiastically |
Child
approaches mother but resists contact, may even push her away |
Infant
shows little interest when mother returns. |
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Other |
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Infant
cries more and explores less than the other 2 types |
Mother and
stranger are able to comfort infant equally well |
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% of
infants |
70 |
15 |
15 |
Conclusions
From her
observations Ainsworth (Mary) concluded that there were three types of
attachment.
Main and
Cassidy (1988) added a fourth type of attachment that they referred to as
‘disorganised.’ The infant’s behaviour is not consistent and shows signs
of indecisiveness and confusion. Sometimes the child will freeze or rock
back and forth.
Evaluation of
the Strange situation
Subsequent
studies that have used the 'Strange Situation' have found it to be
reliable and valid.
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Reliability refers to whether you can produce the same results if tested
again.
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Validity refers to the extent to which the 'Strange Situation' actually
measures what it is supposed to measure.
Reliability
of
the 'Strange Situation' was demonstrated by Main, Kaplan and Cassidy
(1985): They tested babies at 18 months and then retested them at 6 years
of age. They found that 100% of the secure babies were still classified
as secure and 75% of the avoidant babies were still under the same
classification.
Validity
of the 'Strange Situation.' The method of criterion validity was used.
Criterion validity assesses current attachment type and predicts future
attachment. e.g. a securely attached infant is more likely to be sociable
and emotionally adjusted at later ages, compared to an insecurely attached
infant.
Evidence for
validity is not so conclusive, different researchers reaching different
conclusions:
Sroufe (1983)
found support for its validity. Infants that were rated as secure went
on to become more popular, have higher self esteem, and be social leaders.
However,
Bates, et al (1985) disagreed. They claimed that early attachment styles
did not predict the presence of behaviour problems at 3 years of age.
The strange
situation study seems to imply that attachment types influence personality
and therefore affect later attachments. However, the strange situation
may actually be testing the relationship between the infant and the
caregiver.
Main and
Weston (1981) found that children behaved differently depending on which
parent they were with. This suggests that attachment type is not
consistent.
Temperament
hypothesis.
As we saw earlier, perhaps the reason for
a relationship between early attachment and later relationships has
nothing to do with the type of attachment formed. Another possible
explanation, Kagan (1984) is temperament of the child. Those who are
naturally good at forming relationships do so early in life and form close
relationships with parents and this is true later in life as well; because
of their pleasant temperament they are more popular with people in later
life too.
Evaluation of temperament hypothesis:
probably not a likely theory since a child’s attachment type seems to bear
little resemblance to the child’s personality, as determined by
caregiver. i.e. securely attached infants are not necessarily the ones
with the most pleasant personalities
Cross cultural
studies
Ainsworth
carried out most of her research in the USA but others have found broad
agreement with her findings in other parts of the World. The ones I’ll
mention below are exceptions in that they are different and we shall
consider possible explanations for this.


It is
important to remember that these studies do not prove cause and effect.
Think of examples of correlations that we have come across. The
researchers assume that child rearing has caused these differences in
attachment types between cultures but other variables e.g. other social
factors such as standard of living and even genetic influences could also
be involved.
Explanations
of these cross cultural differences
Israeli
children were reared in a Kibbutz so were used to being separated from
their mother. As a result they do not show anxiety when their mother
leaves. However, they are not used to strangers so get distressed when
left alone with the stranger. This explains the high percentage of
resistant behaviour.
Japanese
children show similar patterns of attachment to the Israeli children
but for different reasons. Japanese children are very rarely left by
their mother. So the distress they show when she leaves is probably more
due to shock than it is to insecure attachment. The distress they show
when left alone with the stranger is also more likely to be due to absence
of the mother.
The German
study highlights a high percentage of avoidant behaviour, typical of
independent children. This is not surprising given that Grossmann et al
(1985) say that German parents seek ‘independent, non-clingy infants, who
do not make demands on parents, but obey their commands.’ Ah if only it
were true in Britain!
Evaluation of
cross cultural studies
Mary Ainsworth
assumed that separation anxiety was an indication of secure attachment and
this may be the case in some countries such as Britain and the USA.
However, separation anxiety in other societies and cultures may represent
other factors. The strange situation may therefore not always be a
suitable measure of attachment and may in fact be culturally specific.
This development of a test for one culture, then being used in unfamiliar
cultures is referred to in psychology as imposed etic, and is most
controversial in the testing of IQ.
Van Ijzendoorn
and Kroonenberg report that differences in attachment within a culture are
far greater than those found between cultures. They conclude that it is
wrong to think of everyone in a culture having the same practices. Within
a culture there are many sub-cultures, all with their own way of rearing
children. These may be ethnically or racially based but also may be class
specific, for example in the UK the so called ‘middle classes’ having
different child-rearing techniques to the ‘working classes.’
However, in
support of the strange situation, Bee (1999) believes that the most
striking feature of the cross cultural studies is their similarity. With
the exception of the countries mentioned earlier, most countries do seem
to have a similar pattern with most infants forming secure attachments and
the rest being split equally between avoidant and resistant.

Theories Of Attachment
These try to
explain why we bother to form attachments.
A frequently
asked question asks you’ to outline [and sometimes evaluate] one or more
explanations of attachment. Faced with this, or a similar question,
choose one or more of the following:
Psychodynamic
(Cupboard Love)
‘The reason
why the infant in arms wants to perceive the presence of its mother is
only because it already knows by experience that she satisfies all its
needs without delay,’ Freud (1924).
According to
this theory, the child seeks to be close to the mother since she is their
primary source of comfort, warmth and above all food. Freud based his
theory of attachment on his earlier work on the psychosexual stages of
development. Put simply, Freud was convinced that adult personality
was determined by early childhood experience. The following box is
a brief outline of Freud’s view of child development. At this stage this
is more for interest, background reading and ice breakers at parties.
Only the oral stage is relevant for this section, the other stages rear
their ugly heads in later topics, e.g. phallic stage for moral development
in year 13, if you can wait that long!

As fascinating
as the other stages are, the key stage for attachment is the oral stage,
when the child sucks at the mother’s breast. The child realises that the
mother provides warmth, comfort and food which satisfies the id, see notes
below:
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Also
essential to an understanding of the psychodynamic approach is Freud’s
concept of three components of personality:
Id.
This is innate, so is present at birth. The id is totally selfish and
drives the individual to seek instant gratification. The id wants it
all and it wants it now!
Ego.
This develops during the anal stage as a result of the parents’
attempt to potty train the child. The ego tries to resolve conflicts
and keep all aspects of self happy. In later life it balances
the conflicting demands of the id and superego.
Superego.
This develops during the phallic stage as a result of the resolution
of Oedipus complex and Elektra conflict. The superego is our moral
conscience this is constantly reminding us of what others might think
or want us to do.
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Evaluation
Harlow’s
(1959) research carried out on monkeys showed that, given the choice they
would cuddle up to a soft fluffy surrogate mother, rather than, as Freud
would have predicted, a wire surrogate that provides food. See any text
for famous pictures of this research. Harlow’s work itself is open to
criticism. Is it possible to generalise from monkeys to humans?
Schaffer and
Emerson (1964) showed that Harlow’s
work was relevant. They found that in 40% of cases the figure to whom the
child was most attached was not the figure that fed and cared for them the
most. Schaffer put it succinctly; ‘babies do not
live to eat, but rather they eat to live.’
Harlow and
Suomi (1970) found that when the soft fluffy surrogate rocked, fed the
baby monkey and was nice and warm, the bond formed was even stronger.
Bowlby’s
theory of attachment
It is
impossible to study attachment and child development without considering
Bowlby’s work. His theories on attachment and on maternal deprivation
have been some of the most influential writings on the topic. Given the
nature of his theory I thought it would be worth including an abridged
biography of Bowlby’s early life which sheds light on his motivation to
produce the sort of theories he did.
Bowby’s
theory
Bowlby
believed that attachment is innate and adaptive. We are all born with an
inherited need to form attachments and this is to help us survive. In
line with Darwin’s theory of natural selection, any behaviour that helps
you survive to maturity and reproduce yourself will be maintained in the
gene pool. In human terms, the newborn infant is helpless and relies on
its mother for food, warmth etc. Similarly the mother inherits a genetic
blueprint that predisposes her to loving behaviour towards the infant.
Bowlby
believed that an attachment promotes survival in 3 ways:
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Safety: the
attachment keeps mother and child close to each other. Separation
results in feelings of anxiety.
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Internal
working model: the early attachment acts as a blueprint for later
relationships. In cognitive terms a schema for ‘relationship’ is
produced.
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Safe base
for exploration: the child is happy to wander and explore (necessary for
its cognitive development) knowing it has a safe place to return to if
things turn nasty.
Other aspects
of the theory (deary)
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Critical
period: The attachment must be formed within a certain time span
(compare to Lorenz’s work on imprinting). For the child, if no
attachment is formed within the first two or three years then it is
unlikely the child will ever form one.
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Social
releasers: These are the methods used by the infant to ensure contact
is maintained. Typically smiling, gurgling and crying. According to
Bowlby adults are genetically programmed to respond to these actions.
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One or more
attachments? Done this one already, but to summarise, Bowlby believed
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